We also know people who do not hesitate to complain about this type of behavior in the younger generation (we are probably all guilty of complaining to some extent). We degrade and judge people who show themselves to be "spoiled brats." Why do we do this? Because it negatively affects us, whether it be directly or indirectly. No one wants to lose their appetite because of a whining child who "wasn't raised properly." We are disgusted and angered by kids who can't simply be content with a wii instead of an xbox at Christmas. And we can't understand why someone sees an iPhone or sports car as a necessity, while disregarding their rent payments…
But who's really the spoiled brat? How is our complaining any different than the wailing restaurant child? We are just as selfish as the spoiled Christmas kid. If people aren't operating the way we think they ought to be, then we lose it (either internally or externally…don't think you're off the hook if you don't say anything about it). If we are truly living to please the God who saved us from our selfish desires, then we ought to be LOVING instead of JUDGING the spoiled brats with whom we come into contact. It's what Jesus did, and it's what we should do if we are actually thankful for what he's done for us.